Family ties

Thursday Tarrin spent time with her Kenyan “younger brother” Tati (and just like her American younger brothers, Tati has surpassed her in height!)

Tati came to Nice View while we were there on Thursday and spent the afternoon with us, then when it was time to go Tarrin asked if Tati could come home with us so she could hang out a bit more.  She warmed up a couple of chapatti with butter and sugar, soda and taught Tati how to play Blitz (card game).  They talked about school, what he wanted to do in life, corruption at his school, favorite foods and simply hung out.

Tati’s background didn’t matter to Tarrin, he was simply a neat kid.  However his background bears telling, he’s been through a lot.  We met Tati back in 2008 when he was 13 years old, living on his own while his mom worked in a different village and could only visit him once or twice a week.  When she did visit she tried to give him enough money for the week for food.  When we met him he had no money and mom wasn’t coming for a couple of days.  He lived in a latrine converted to a room with no security, no electricity, no water.  Tati had to prepare his own meals, wash his own clothes, motivate himself to do his homework and one time while he was cooking he caught his only clothes on fire.  That’s when we were introduced to Tati and we talked with Gideon at Nice View to see if he could board at the school.  He became an excellent student there and a mentor to the other kids (he still mentors younger students at his current high school).

He is competed in a math competition this past weekend and Tarrin is hoping when he returns he’ll be able to spend Monday with her again before heading back to school on Tuesday…I’m sure Tati will not decline that invitation!  You could see the happiness on his face when we dropped him off in the evening and what a blessing it was to see them interact together.

Laughter

Oh how I love the feeling of just laughing, especially when I’m laughing with one (or all of) my kids!  Laughter is such an essential part of my life that when it’s not around I feel dead inside.  I believe God likes it when we laugh and I hold laughing as an important aspect of my life.  I believe that so wholeheartedly that on our living room wall back in Phoenix I have the words “Laugh” and “Faith” hanging in a prominent place – right in the center of the wall.

I have a few DVD’s I keep for when I just want to laugh til I cry.  They have been especially helpful this past year, but with Tarrin here we have laughed so much just being together.  God has really lightened my heart during her visit so far and perhaps that’s the reason I can sense, more clearly, His nudge for which direction He wants me to go.

So go ahead and laugh :)

A new student?

Tarrin and I spent Tuesday at Nice View Academy.  She was given the grand tour, introduced to all the classes and then sat in on a few!

Tarrin is introduced to Milky Way and tries petting her ear! Milky Way was having none of it and finally just put her ear back!

We observed the Class 8 English class and Tarrin had high praises for the teacher and her methods...I simply thought it was a good class!

Today, Wednesday, we’ll be at the property…construction is still ongoing so you need some updated pictures!  Thursday we’ll be at the Academy again to visit a couple more classes.  Friday will be pizza preparation day so Tarrin and I will be staying home that day :)

I have to say it’s been so wonderful having her here but I have to stop torturing myself thinking of her departure….enjoy the time I have NOW with her and experience the blessing God has given me TODAY!

It feels right

Last night after we gave Tarrin (our eldest daughter) the grand tour of the house we gave her a few minutes to organize her room and I told Chuck “this just feels so right to have her here.”

Today as we walked around the property finding interesting stones I thought to myself….”this just feels so right”.

Tonight as we prepared pizza and Tarrin took a nap (that time difference is catching up with her) I again thought “this just feels so right.”

It’s like a piece of the puzzle which I’d been looking for has finally showed up and it just feels so right.

Telling it like it is

I’m going to just come right out and tell you…posts may be (most likely will be) sporadic over the next few weeks.  6 weeks to be exact because that is the amount of time our daughter, Tarrin, will be here visiting us.  We have plans to show her around Kenya and take a bit of time off to see some of this beautiful country we live in.  Kind of like living in Arizona and never getting around to seeing the Grand Canyon – I guess that isn’t the best example because when we first moved to Arizona whenever family and friends visited that’s all anyone wanted to do so we actually began giving directions to and from so we wouldn’t have to see it again!  Anyway with that being said my computer will be at home most of the time but when we are home and I’m not totally smothering Tarrin (must get in as much mom love as possible before she leaves!) I will post updates here and on Facebook.

As I write this she is somewhere in the air and we are praying for her safe travels and all her luggage makes it with her!  Now I’m off to get her room ready and that is one chore I am overly thrilled to be doing.  Thank you Father for this opportunity to see Tarrin, for her to experience a bit of Kenyan life and for friends who understand my absence for awhile.

2 days and counting!

Yup, 2 more days before Tarrin (our eldest daughter) sets foot on Kenyan soil and I am excited beyond imagination :)   It’s been over a year since I’ve seen her – ok, I’ve seen her on skype but not in person – or any of my kids for that matter and it will feel so good to give her a giant hug!  I told Chuck I should probably warn her that if she wakes up at night and I’m standing over her, don’t worry…I’m just looking and soaking in all her wonderfulness.

our last hug before Chuck and I left for Kenya in 2010

My parenting feelings remind me of how God feels about me, He knows me “You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.”  Psalm 139:2.  I know He’s excited beyond imagination to see me and give me a huge hug “…there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.” Luke 15:7 and I know He’s looking over me while I sleep (maybe not to soak in my wonderfulness, but to pour His wonderfulness into me!) “In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, LORD, make me dwell in safety.” Psalm 4:8

No matter how old I get I will always be God’s daughter and His feelings for me will never change.

 

Happy birthday mom!

me, mom and my sister (Paula)

Wow, my mom turns….ok I won’t divulge that information but suffice it to say she looks pretty darn good for her age!  Here’s a hint…this photo was taken during her 70th surprise birthday party last year :)

My mom and I have been through a lot of life together, some good, some not so good and some just great.  I know while I was growing up I really didn’t appreciate the sacrifices she made as a single mom raising 2 girls but as I have gotten older (and hopefully wiser) I’m so proud of her.  She worked hard and I never felt we were missing anything…there was always food on the table (actually very yummy food, mom’s a great cook!), a roof over our head and clothes to wear (I never missed not having designer jeans…maybe I did have them if mom found them at a garage sale or something!).

Mom makes me laugh at her antics, stumbling onto Skype and we were able to talk (believe me mom is NOT computer literate so this was a miracle!).  She makes me worry, will she one day cut a finger off with her electric saw?  Through it all I know she loves me and I love her dearly…….happy birthday mom!

Weight training anyone?

Weight training really takes some dedication by the young people living in the village.  I heard noises this morning and thought a few workers were here shaping stone, but when I went to investigate I found James, Gideon and Pauline’s eldest son who just turned 18, chiseling a hole in a stone:

When I asked him what he was doing he replied “I’m making weights.”  Wow, not only is he interested in weight training (one of my particular interests too) but he has to literally make the weights!  Good for you James!

Maybe I can get in a work out too, but I think I need smaller stones to start with…wonder if he takes orders!?

Visiting

Some of you may remember our “refreshing meeting” a few weeks ago.  Well we were able to visit this wonderful family again and this time we got to meet Therese before she had to go back to school in Nairobi the next day.

Samuel, Nicholas, Therese & Annastacia

Me, Therese, Samuel

Chuck and Therese

Mom and Therese

Dad and Therese

We had a very nice time and it was just as refreshing as the first visit!